The Secret to living a happy life is to let it go.
Let go of pain, let go of anger, let go of regret, let go of resentment, let go of the past, let go of mistakes, let go of the ex, let go of the dissapointment. Surrender it all. Why hold on to negatives? You don't have room for it, You want to clear out the junk to make room for the good things and in life it's exactly the same principle, if you hold on to all the pain and negativity you're only preventing room for the good things to enter your life. There is always a purpose or reason why certain people are removed from your life.
Think about that when you decide to hold on to or chase after them. Cut out the negativity, It's a waste of space in your heart and life. How amazing is it to stay silent when someone expects you to lash out in anger? How wonderful is it it to laugh when someone believes that you will shed tears when they say something belittling?
let go of the things that hold you back, and you realize how truly beautiful your life really is xx